Railay Beach

Posted on: January 25, 2017














My most favorite stop on our Asia adventure! Railay Beach is just a short boat ride from Krabi and I was tempted to cancel the rest of our trip and stay on the beach! Railay is the MOST beautiful beach we have been to (yet) and I would go back in a heartbeat. The water was warm, clear, and the richest color of turquoise. Delicious Thai food coupled with world wide influenced “street food” made for an authentic experience. We enjoyed our Christmas day on the beach and I think we may make that a new tradition. Although it’s tough to be away from family, we “gifted” each other our trip and it was more about experiences than it was material things. Living abroad is really teaching me how valuable experiences are versus what we have. #perspecitve.  We spent most of our days at the beach or in the infinity pool and stumbled across a monkey or two! These photos are making me wish winter was over and that I could go back tomorrow. Whose ready to ditch the coats and go?!

  • We stayed at the Railay Princess Resort and Spa and it was perfect! Our room came with complimentary breakfast and was great for the price!
  • Stay in Railay…We flew into Krabi, Thailand and then took a bus and boat to get to Railay.  You could stay in Krabi but you would need to take a boat out to the beaches daily and it costs each time.
  • I would recommend spending a whole week at the beach. There are so many gorgeous beaches in the area I would suggest beach hoping!
  • Spend a day kayaking! The rock formations and the turquoise water is not to be missed!



p.s. my dress is from Piper and Scoot!


Wat Rong Khun [The White Temple]

Posted on: January 18, 2017









Taking you back to Asia today with another travel post! Are you sick of them yet? I hope not! We decided we wanted to take a day trip to see Wat Rong Khun in Chiang Rai but we didn’t want to sit on a crowded tour bus for an entire day to do it. So we decided to rent a car. In Thailand, they drive on the other side of the road so it was a little strange to say the least. Thankfully, Carson is a good driver and we didn’t run into any problems! It was a little too easy to rent the car and my heart jumped to my throat every time we passed a police checkpoint in fear they would arrest us as foreigners. I’m happy to report I was overreacting and all was well. I’m so happy we made the day trip because Wat Rong Khun is not to be missed!



The Newest Member of The James Gang

Posted on: January 15, 2017





Taking a little break from our travel posts today to share some fun news! Carson and I mustered up the courage to buy our very own Moto after renting for a few months. We are real Europeans now and speaking of courage, Carson let me take her out for a spin this week around the city. Usually he takes the moto to school and I take public transit, but I wanted to give it a shot. I almost hit a parked car going off the curb (thank goodness I didn’t) and after a few thousand prayers I made it to class safely and confidently. Friends, I feel straight out of a movie zipping around in my pink helmet and I thank my lucky stars the Spaniards are patient with me! So…if this isn’t a good reason to come visit us, I don’t know what it is! I’ll happily take you around the city on this little beauty.



Chiang Mai Travel Tips

Posted on: January 13, 2017











Hello friends! I hope this finds you well! Today I’m sharing some of my favorite photos from our stop in Chiang Mai! If you visit Thailand, please put Chiang Mai on your list of stops! It’s a charming little city. :)

Chiang Mai suprised us with her charm and “hipster” feel and I loved capturing the small details. Coming from Bangkok, we marveled at the Grand Palace and its enormity, so it was a nice contrast to focus on the little things! I can’t wait to share our day with the elephants at Raantong Elephant Save & Rescue so stay tuned. :)

  • We stayed at the Eurasia Chiang Mai hotel and to be honest it was not our favorite….It was cheap though! I would recommend checking out some Airbnb’s. (click on the link and it will take you directly to an Airbnb search for Chiang Mai)
  • The old city has a plethora of Smaller old temples! Take a day to see them!
  • We loved walking through the old city and there are a TON of great little places to eat! Stop for breakfast at Angel’s Secrets. It gets a little busy so plan ahead!
  • Visit an Ethical Elephant Sanctuary. PLEASE do your research when selecting a tour. Many do not treat the animals well at all…
  • We ate THE BEST MEXICAN in Chiang Mai. So random I know but when you want a break from Thai food head to Salsa Kitchen!
  • Get a massage! You can find a wide range of services and prices too!




Posted on: January 10, 2017




















We are home from our amazing trip to Southeast Asia! We traveled light so I’m back to my laptop and able to blog some of the million photos I took! I’m not joking when I say a million photos you guys, I just couldn’t resist! We flew into Bangkok to start off our adventure so that’s where I’ll start today.

We spent three days in Bangkok and it was the perfect amount of time. The Grand Palace and surrounding temples were breath-taking. Carson’s favorite was Wat Pho (Temple of the Reclining Buddha) and I loved Wat Phra Kaew in the main Grand Palace complex. I could’ve done a single post for each temple we visited, but who has time for that?! :) Just kidding! I’ll happily email you the photos if you’re that curious! :)

We rode in our first “Tuk Tuk”, fell in love with mango sticky rice, battled jet lag, ate our fair share of pad thai, and mastered the art of bargaining. It was a good start to say the least.

  • We stayed in this Airbnb and it was brand new! Super clean and quiet but a bit too far out of the main city! Great for kids, but keep in mind you would need to travel in by train to see the temples. Usually about a 30 min trek.
  • Terminal 21 is a huge mall where every floor is dedicated to a major tourist city around the world! If you need a break from the temples and heat this is a great place to hang for a few hours!
  • Eat as much Mango Sticky Rice as you can! I think we ate it daily and I am still dreaming about it!!! Drink bottled water! You do not want to spend our trip dealing with parasites!
  • When visiting the temples be aware of the dress code! No shorts, tanks, or midriff. That includes for the guys too!
  • We wanted to visit the floating market but we didn’t plan it very well and ended up in Bangkok when the market is not open! I believe it is only open on weekends! Keep in mind tourism is how most people make their money so be prepared for people to up sell you! Put your bargaining hat on especially when it comes to Tuk Tuks!

I hope you enjoy a small taste of our adventure and comment below your travel tips!



i lost my identity

Posted on: January 6, 2017


I recently stumbled upon a Ted Talk while browsing facebook and it spoke to me in volumes. I’m not going to discuss it too much but if you would like to check it out you can do so here! Basically she spelled out everything I have been feeling lately and helped me feel valid in what I was experiencing. I also came across an article stating that our “online world” is a little too perfect, so I will let you behind the curtain a little bit today. With that being said, you’ve been warned and are free to read on or pass by. But I hope you’ll stay because real talk is important!

I’ve been tied to my title as a “dancer” for as long as I can remember and I find myself a little lost without it. My success, failures, struggles, and triumphs all existed in that realm and I’m not sure I ever had to find myself outside of that. Anyone seen the Disney movie Inside Out? If you have, you could say I have two really large islands. One is labeled “family” (self explanatory) and the other labeled “dancer” which contains everything else. So when Dancer island falters, so does the rest of my world.


I would assume most of us go through this at some point but basically it’s a crisis of identity. Am I important without “I’m Jessie and I’m a Dancer”? Can it just be “I’m Jessie”? Is “I’m Jessie” enough? I’m not asking if it’s enough for you. I’m asking if it is enough for me. Can I feel accomplished, special, and proud of myself without that title?

You may be asking yourself, “why is she freaking out? she’s not done forever, and she freakin lives in spain! What a dream!” Your right. Spain is dreamy! I will agree with you there, but this is no vacation. Vacation is when you get to forget about your life and come back to it a week or two later refreshed. This is life my now. This is my everyday! This is where I want, no need, to find myself. Redefine what my day to day purpose is and what fills my cup. I strongly believe we have to fill our own cup before others can help us fill the last few drops.


So begins the research. What are my interests and can I expand them here? Of course I can. What have I been itching to achieve that I know how the time and space to do so?  In what ways can I fill the need to create? It may be a good start to learn Spanish so I can easily grocery shop, or maybe I’ll take a course on our new fancy camera. The moral of the story is this….I’m a little lost and that is A-Okay. We have to be a little lost to be found right? What a chance I have before me to discover so many new ideas, hobbies, and skills i’ve never tapped into.

Elizabeth Gilbert, the author of Eat Pray Love and my new favorite Big Magic, quoted Jack Gilbert and his advice to his students saying: “He asked his students to be brave. Without bravery, he instructed, they would never be able to realize the vaulting scope of their own capacities. Without bravery, they would never know the world as richly as it longs to be know. Without bravery, their lives would remain small-far smaller than they probably wanted their lives to be.”

So bravery may be my word for life, not just last year. And brave I shall (try) to be!



10 ways to fake it as a European

Posted on: December 15, 2016


The Spanish know how to live. I guess I could say Europeans in general have got it all figured out. Two hour lunches and long dinners with friends, weekend trips to the country, and a sense of calm that radiates from everyone. There is no hurried “lunch on the go”, streams of business men chatting frantically on the phone, or massive plates of wasteful food. I think they would giggle at us Americans and how addicted to work we are, the fact we take lunch at our desks, or eat plates of food the size of our heads. I’m also IN LOVE with European street style and how classy and bold everyone dresses. If I’m not careful, I’ll shop us dry 😉

so here’s a few tips if your going to pretend to fit in 😉

1. Wear dark colors and let your hair air dry (wham bam thank you sam).

2. Rock a pair of thick platform boots.

3. Eat a baguette like its your favorite piece of candy.

4. Show up late. #spanishstandardtime. (jk don’t be late but everyone here is!)

5. Drive a moto like you’ve done it since birth.

6. Bread, cheese, and chocolate are now your primary food groups.

7. Learn to exhale while walking past someone who smokes. And that’s everyone here.

8. Hold onto your valuables tight. You’re not in Kansas anymore.

9. Drink your beverages out of teeny tiny cups. #watershots

10. Live care free. No one cares how tall, short, fat, skinny, or purple you are. I can’t speak for all of Europe, but in Barcelona all is welcome.



Fira De Sant llucia Market

Posted on: December 12, 2016
















There are soooo many photos in this post because I simply couldn’t choose! Did you notice all those little logs with a red hat? They are actually a HUGE Catalan tradition! It’s called the “Caga Tio” and it begins with the Feast of the Immaculate Conception (December 8). One gives the tio a little bit to “eat” every night and usually covers him with a blanket so that he will not be cold. The story goes that in the days preceding Christmas, children must take good care of the log, keeping it warm and feeding it, so that it will poop presents on Christmas Day! How cute is that? There is even a little song that goes a long with it! There are Caga Tio’s all over the city and I giggle every time we see one :)

I couldn’t contain myself with my camera and the beauty of this market! It’s a tradition here in Barcelona and it’s been around for 230 years! Europe contains so much rich history simply because of it’s old age. I love it. It’s magical. I even made a video and if you want to watch it you can see it here!

 I thought that this Christmas season would be hard being away from family and our usual traditions but this new home has surprised me! Thankfully we feel right at home with the warmth of the Spanish people and goodness of the other IESE students and partners. We’ll see if that good attitude holds till Christmas 😉



The James Gang Abroad [Christmas in Barcelona Video]

Posted on: December 10, 2016

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Christmas is magical in Europe and I didn’t want the Christmas season to pass by without documenting it! I’ll be the first to admit that I DO NOT like being in front of a camera but I want to look back in 20 years and cherish these memories! We are constantly stumbling upon gorgeous markets, lights, shops, and installations! The Spanish sure know how to enjoy the holidays! I hope you like it!



#Light The World

Posted on: November 27, 2016




I’ve been so distraught lately with the Presidential Election, Standing Rock, Terror attacks in Syria, and the many other horrible things going on in the world I was so happy to stumble upon this service campaign from the LDS church! Not a better way to celebrate the holidays in my opinion! The world could use a little light and mankind could use a little love. I’m in… are you? Full calendar here!



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